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Royalty

Unless you are personally known to the member of the royal family you should address your letter to the Private Secretary or Equerry, asking that the subject of the letter be known to His Royal Highness.

In such cases the letter can begin and end:

Dear Sir or Dear Madam (if name not known)
Yours faithfully

Dear Sir Martin
Yours sincerely

Envelope: The Private Secretary to NAME OF ROYALTY

For those who do wish to write directly to the member of the royal family, the letter should begin ‘Sir’. It ends with ‘I have the honour to remain, Sir, Your Royal Highness’s most humble and obedient servant’ and then your name.

Within the body of the letter do not use ‘you’ (singular) or ‘your’ (singular). Instead use ‘Your Royal Highness’ and ‘Your Royal Highness’s’.

Envelope: His Royal Highness the Prince of Wales (for example).

Allow the royalty to begin, steer and end the conversation.

On first address: Your Royal Highness
Thereafter: Sir

As with writing, replace ‘you’ and ‘your’ with ‘Your Royal Highness’ and ‘Your Royal Highness’s’.

When being presented to royalty (those with the style His Royal Highness) men are expected to bow from the neck. Women can either bow or curtsey. If a curtsy is given it is just a short bob, keeping the back straight, hands by the side and dropping the knees slightly and bowing the head.

Those who do not wish to bow or curtsy do not have to. Technically, only those who have Her Majesty The Queen as their head of state need to bow or curtsey to The Queen and her family. Citizens of other countries, for example America, may bow or curtsey if they wish but do not have to.

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